Ego a small 3 letter word. Appears to be small, but plays a major role in the lives of humans. Every person will have ego, and nobody wants their ego to be hurt. But in the game of satisfying their ego's humans cross the barriers and their limits. It appears that probably this small 3 letter word make humans blind, ruin relationships and what not.Probably it is only ruling the entire world.
If we trace back the root cause of any problem, it will definetly lead to the ego of some person who was the cause of the entire problem. It may be between two nations or between employee and employer, or may be between a wife and a husband or it may be between friends or any other relationship. Definetly, the root cause for a rift between them will be an ego factor. If a wife and husband are getting divorced, the cause might be very simple, everybody wants their importance and individuality wherein the process, they want their ego to be satisfied and in the race they forget the basic principles of life and hurt others in the process which finally leads to a separation.
History has proven that people who have followed the path of ego have ruined their lives and the lives of people who followed them. Success , completeness in a human being is accomplished only when they follow the path of love. Some one who spreads love and follows the path of love will be definetly successful and also bring goodness to the lives of people who follow him.
When observed carefully why some people are always suffering and why only very few people are happy and successful, it can be concluded from their lives, that they happiest people have not given undue importance to their ego. When a person is not having any ego, definetly he is bound to be happy. Happiness comes in a state of egolessness.
As the old saying goes and various researches have proven "Laughter is the best medicine". A person who is pure from inside and have no worries or troubles, have no fear, have no ego can have a whole hearted laugh and he will smile a lot. Smiling and laughing are the indications that a person in happy. Only a happy person can bring the change in the atmosphere - make others happy. Even if someone looks at his cheerful face forget their troubles and get relief.
Smile a lot. Laugh a lot. This will make you a happy person.
If we trace back the root cause of any problem, it will definetly lead to the ego of some person who was the cause of the entire problem. It may be between two nations or between employee and employer, or may be between a wife and a husband or it may be between friends or any other relationship. Definetly, the root cause for a rift between them will be an ego factor. If a wife and husband are getting divorced, the cause might be very simple, everybody wants their importance and individuality wherein the process, they want their ego to be satisfied and in the race they forget the basic principles of life and hurt others in the process which finally leads to a separation.
History has proven that people who have followed the path of ego have ruined their lives and the lives of people who followed them. Success , completeness in a human being is accomplished only when they follow the path of love. Some one who spreads love and follows the path of love will be definetly successful and also bring goodness to the lives of people who follow him.
When observed carefully why some people are always suffering and why only very few people are happy and successful, it can be concluded from their lives, that they happiest people have not given undue importance to their ego. When a person is not having any ego, definetly he is bound to be happy. Happiness comes in a state of egolessness.
Now comes the question. Is it really possible to be egoless. Is it really possible to be happy. Yes definetly it is 100% possible. Let us take the case of small children who are just born or who are infants and who doesnt know the tricks of this world. We can see how happy they are playing in their own world, having no fear and no ego. They smile a lot and are always happy. Is it not evident that they themselves are very happy and who ever are seeing them also feel that happiness and forget their troubles.
So what does this indicate, purity in thought, having no fear, having no ego these are the qualities which we observe in a child. If anyone can implement these in their lives, definetly like an innocent child we can also be smiling a lot and can be really happy.
As the old saying goes and various researches have proven "Laughter is the best medicine". A person who is pure from inside and have no worries or troubles, have no fear, have no ego can have a whole hearted laugh and he will smile a lot. Smiling and laughing are the indications that a person in happy. Only a happy person can bring the change in the atmosphere - make others happy. Even if someone looks at his cheerful face forget their troubles and get relief.
Lets not spread the distress, problems , fears, ego etc we have to others by keeping an unhappy face, rather try to be happy and make others happy.
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